OK, something I guess I already knew got pounded home today. My coworker is NOT the person to talk with about starting my business. She literally berates me about not having already just jumped out and done it, while she herself has done nothing with the business she has already legally created and set up a website for...because of the same fears I have about starting mine! And mine is MUCH more complicated! So as of today I have decided not to even bring up anything about the business around her again. All she does is piss me off and want to throw it all right back in her face, which, if I did that, would ruin our friendship. So I am choosing to be the bigger person and just stop all discussions that might make me want to slap her.